The Pleasure Plan

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Based on popular essays in New York Times’ Modern Love column and Salon, The Pleasure Plan is a memoir and call to action, inspiring women to claim pleasure as a priority. It’s also a love story.

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Even basic information about women’s sexual functioning can be criminally hard to find–and so difficult to talk about. As a writer, wellness trainer and coach, as a Sexuality Educator and Certified Trauma Professional, as someone who has overcome my own struggles, I’m here to listen and help.

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